Vol.# 168
It is sweltering!
As April draws closer it will get hotter as this is the hottest time of the year.
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| Celebrating birthday with Jeri owner of salon where he employs girls from difficult backgrounds |
Thank you so much for the birthday wishes, and messages on FB, FaceTime calls and phone calls! My day started with Jesus, and then I had my tutoring session at a coffee shop instead of at home, and was able to bless my tutor with breakfast.
As we were sitting at one booth, I noticed 3 Khmer men sitting together and talking, then 4 more joined them and then 2 foreigners as well, and then an older Khmer man came in with a Bible and some books. I realized that these men were meeting for a fellowship time.
My mind went back to the first time I had started to pray for Cambodia over ten years ago, and the prayer at that time was for God to raise up godly Khmer men who would take up their rightful place in society and lead with Godly influence! And here now in a public setting, these men of various ages were sharing and talking about how having a relationship with Jesus Christ changed their lives!
YUP, I was eavesdropping and at same time asking my tutor to translate words/phrases I did not understand because the men were speaking too fast, but then they changed to English as the foreigners came to sit with them. And God reminded me that His timing for everything is perfect, and that HE is faithful to answer our prayers!
Of course, you all know that I had to go over to their table to say something (I did ponder for one minute if this was a good idea or not but …). So I just said it was my birthday, to which they all responded HAPPY BIRTHDAY!, and I also told them that back in Canada we had two prayer groups that faithfully prayed for Cambodia, and that I had prayed to see men grow and become leaders in Jesus Christ, and that this would permeate in all levels of society! (Thank you, Ratanak International Organization, for sowing this seed within me and being burden bearers for my heart country.) As a parting shot, I said, “And don’t forget your relationship with Jesus comes first but then your family comes after, and not the ‘ministry”! They all said together, “Of course, Bong Srey” (older sister in Khmer).
My housemate took me out for a birthday dinner while the ‘kids’ were at a different place waiting for me to sing Happy Birthday!
We had all been together just the day before for another ex-student’s wedding in the countryside. We had gone on motorbikes, and my blue jeans were brown jeans one hour later when we got to our destination due to the dust and dirt along the way. The groom’s name was Socheat who was one of the young men who lived at the orphanage, but he was never one of my students. I got to know him here in the city, and had the honor of being not only the sole foreigner there, but I think I was also the only former leader/teacher from Rescue who was invited. My housemate is like a mentor to him, and the other former students are all part of a sports group, so it was natural for them to be included in the invitation.
When I was invited, I wanted to make sure it was not an imposition on them to have to worry about taking care of the ‘foreigner’, so I met with Socheat, the future groom, and also one of leaders of the sports group along with his fiancée at my house where the three of them proceeded to choose which dresses in my closet were appropriate to wear at the wedding (seriously!!!!). Then the leader’s fiancée, whose family lives next to the groom, invited me to stay at her house! I was truly humbled because I was enquiring about a guest house in the vicinity where I could stay for the 2 nights, but they insisted that it was going to be okay. Then I asked if I could pray for the future groom since I knew it would be very busy time when we went to the wedding place, and that the ceremony was going to be in different religion as well. So there in our kitchen, I got to put my hands on his shoulder, and the other student had his hand on my shoulder as well around his fiancée, and as I prayed the prayer was translated into Khmer (I began to pray in Khmer, but as the words flowed I switched back to English), and the four of us bowed our heads together as I blessed and prayed over all of them.
Very sweet time!
I got to sleep on the mom’s mattress. The family from the house went to another house to sleep so that we all, about 12 of us, could sleep on mats on the floor and share one huge barrel of water which was cool and refreshing! The guys were cooking ‘duck’ around midnight on the fireside and it was really good. It brought back memories of Trinidad, especially in the morning with the cock crowing and the sounds of the dogs barking!
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| With Bride and Groom |
Please pray that the bonds that were developed with the girlfriends of the boys would grow deeper. There was some drama with one of the couples over a third person, so I reminded them all that if they were going to have more than one girlfriend, they should expect drama!!!!! (Yes! I gave a mini lecture on respect and not being a ‘player’. I could not resist doing that!)
I spent birthday time at a training seminar sponsored by Prison Fellowship Ministry with a Canadian team teaching us about the Celebrate Recovery Programme. This is just like Alcoholics Anonymous, but with Jesus being the centre of it all, and going over spiritual freedom aspects of the programme. We got to not only be trained, but also to role-play the groups in which we introduced ourselves and then stated what was the issue in our lives. I received my certificate at the end of it all.
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Praise:
I got to spend time with Khmer female workers from Prison Fellowship as well as from other churches and was blessed to hear testimonies from three former prisoners who have now become leaders in their community. I also got to reconnect with Elizabeth Bauer who has worked here in Cambodia for a long time with her husband; they have relocated back to Canada, but she comes back frequently to train Cambodians on how to run and maintain the Celebrate Recovery programme here.
Praise:
I was having problems on how to share one particular Bible topic, but after receiving advice from Pastor Sunder which echoed a suggestion from one of my former classmates here, and after listening to the testimonies of the former prisoners, I am more confident now on how to ‘segue’ into Saul’s conversion from the book of Acts!
Prayer:
I still do not feel ‘rested’, so I am looking forward to getting away for five days with 2 former expat teachers from Rescue, who are currently now working in PP, for the Khmer New Year in April. Everything shuts down here and most people go back to their hometowns or to the beaches here. I have learnt from experience to not go to the beaches around that time since it is crowded, and the 5 to 7 hour bus ride can be frustrating and prices increase dramatically over food and accommodations! So I am praying for restoration of body and mind!
I love the celebrations that happen in the villages, and the dances, and to see everyone eating together and just having fun throwing water and baby powder on each other as part of the Khmer New Year tradition.
I am grateful to all of you who have continued to pray and to sacrificially give towards my support here.
Please continue to share your prayer requests with me and your life stories as well!
Love, His Warrior and Disciple,
Submitting to be His Dance partner here in Cambodia,
Your sister, Vidya
(P.S. I am waiting for the formal graduation ceremony form language school: when I hear from the school I will share with you all!)
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