Tuesday 29 June 2021

#243 - Snapshots of my life in this season: Praise and Prayer

Vol.# 243

Hello from a noisy and hot morning here in Phnom Penh! 

I thought I would do my update a little bit differently through pictures of life and those He has given to me to walk alongside and dance with in this season here in Cambodia!


 

SREYLIN

Praise: The first picture is of SreyLin. I call her Oun (little one) Lin Lin. We met for a one to one at Pizza Company to sit and chat about what has been going on in her life since last year December! We had chatted online but this was the first time we got to meet for lunch. Oun Lin Lin works at the office at New Life Foundation, and was on the church planters’ team, but now has transferred to Media with HR department at NLF. She actually cried when we first reconnected on my first day back to the office a couple of weeks ago! I am so proud to see how she has grown in the Lord, her involvement with the Youth group and her hunger for God. She is in a new relationship, so I am one of her big sisters who is asking her the ‘difficult questions’ because I want to make sure she stays close to God’s values and have healthy boundaries in her relationship. She lives with her mom (she lost her dad few years ago) but here in this culture sometimes there is difficulty in asking the ‘hard questions.
Prayer Request: Pray that God would show me how to balance the fun in our relationship with the delicacy of being a true mentor in challenging her in her growth in Jesus. I will be meeting with her boyfriend at a later date as well. Please ask for His discernment and wisdom as we all ‘lime’ together!



OUN ALY
 
Praise: Oun Aly! She is in charge of Dynamic service set up, for online taping of the service. She makes sure the cameras, music, IT and all the details of service set up is done and ready for the taping. I have felt God lead me to be her ‘runner’ to get things done, from the cleaning of equipment to moving around of stage equipment. My experience of setting up events at RAC is being used here as we trouble shoot together on possible problems and come up with different scenarios of how to problem solve. I listen, pray and am her helper on set up days, which is usually on a Wednesday. We have lunch together and recently she shared about her new relationship as well as her relationships with her family members and her relationship with Jesus.
Prayer Request: Please pray for energy to keep up with her! Seriously, she moves fast! Pray for our weekly meetings to be times where I can encourage her as she is a woman in leadership, to be able to challenge her to keep the discipline of her quiet times with Jesus so that she is filled up to pass this on to her team! Pray for me to share with her how to be ‘silly’ and to allow His laughter and His sense of fun to permeate into her life, to not always be so serious and to enjoy this new season with her relationship with a wonderful man of God! I had been praying for her and God has sent her a fellow worker from NLF!



 
OUN PHEAREAK

Praise: Oun Pheareak is in his red tshirt! He is the facilitator of Life Guideline classes on a Sunday, showing the expats how to share the gospel within the Khmer context! He has an amazing testimony of a gangster lifestyle before joining the dorm, and learning English at the classes given by NLF. He is now the personal assistant to the Senior Pastor, Pastor Samdy, at the church. He works with the Youth and teaches/trains youth on their faith and how to share their faith whilst going to school himself! We meet on Wednesdays to go and buy lunch for the three pastoral leaders, who on that day usually have no time to go and get something to eat because it is ‘taping’ day for church service. So Oun Pheareak and I would go and surprise them with lunch, the surprise being whatever they would be eating that day! From my days of sous chef with Jerry and Maggie Ages where I worked under their leadership to prepare meals for the Board once a month, I know the importance of giving this gift of literally feeding the leaders so that it prepares them to spiritual feed the souls of others. So I have made a promise to feed these three once a week, not in cooking, because we have no kitchen, but at least in buying the food! 
Prayer Request: Oun Pheareak has so much going on in his life. Pray that I would be able to wisely show him how to draw boundaries and how to say ‘no’ to certain events no matter how ‘spiritual’ it seems! I have had to learn that in my own life and next month he is getting engaged, so please pray that we at NLF would be allowed to go to the village to celebrate this engagement! He and his girlfriend have been seeking advice from their Khmer Christian leaders and I am so happy that finally they are getting engaged!




OUN VEASNA
 
Praise: Oun Veasna! He is the new Worship pastor for NLF! He has been wise in gathering a group of us to be prayer supporters for this ministry. He has been under the mentorship of Angie and Jason, who have now returned to the States after serving here for 16 years! He can listen to a piece of music and then play it by ear. He is creating worship music as well. He is the eldest of 4 brothers, all of whom are musically inclined! They lost their parents at an early age and he was told that he would never amount to much! He has been married for about 3 years. 
Prayer Request: Pray that I would be able to encourage this Psalmist of God. The mantle of leadership can be heavy since he is trying to find his own way and not those of his predecessors. He is also now involved in administration and in meetings that are more structured now in this pandemic time. Please pray that I can encourage him to see that these meetings are also worship times and that his role is pivotal just as the spoken word is at a service. I am encouraging him to find his voice in a leadership capacity! He just wrote a song about being able to worship even when times are difficult based on Paul and Silas being in jail and worshipping the Lord! So many are now listening to his worship music all across Cambodia since we have gone online!



 
VISAL AND FORMER RESCUE STUDENT, SOKCHEAT

Praise: This picture is outside the house of a former student from Rescue (he is wearing the dark shirt). His mom passed away that morning. I had received a text from another former student, Visal (who is standing behind him in the picture), informing me of the death earlier in the day. However his mom, who had worked at Rescue for a time, had died of complications from COVID-19 and had been cremated as per government’s instructions on any COVID-19 death. Why do I put this under praise? I was deliberating whether I should go and God reminded me how important ‘presence’ was, to not only me with His presence but also the physical presence is one way of reflecting His presence to others. So I went and prayed and chatted with Sokcheat. I saw his wife and his little girl and got to meet with his 2 sisters, one of whom had just had a baby! It was a 20 minute tuk tuk ride one way for about a 10-minute meeting but I am glad I obeyed God, for as I was leaving Sokcheat said, “Thank you Bong Srey for your time, for your prayer and for your love for me and my family.” I gave him money to help with funeral expenses and he teared up. I could not hug him, but again I am so glad I obeyed God to go and show my respect. 
Prayer Request: Pray for wisdom on how to follow up with care for Sokcheat and his family. I reminded him that as his mom was a Christian, that she was in heaven now, and he has that hope of knowing she is there with Jesus. His walk with Jesus has become lukewarm so I am praying that God would give him dreams of seeing his mom in heaven and being reminded of how God came to save him. Please pray that Sokcheat and his family would not have contracted COVID.



INFORMATION DESK TEAM STUDYING EPHESIANS

Praise: This is a screen shot of our Information Desk team meeting to study from Ephesians. The young man next to me on the screen is a former student from Rescue who now lives in the Boys Dorm here in PP. He led the Bible study that day and I am so proud of him as he is usually so shy!



GIVING BLESSING PACKAGES WITH PRAYER

Praise God that besides giving the blessing packages to those in need outside of the city, the leaders are also praying over and with them!


 

SENIOR PASTOR CHATTING WITH GIRLS AT DORM


Prayer Request: In this screenshot pic, we see our Senior Pastor and his wife talking to girls at the dorm. There have been 2 cases of Positive COVID, so please pray for quick recovery. They have all received the vaccine yet they got COVID. Pray for the girls at the dorm. They did the COVID-19 test and so far they are negative except for those 2 cases.



BAPTISM OF 13 YOUTH

Praise: In the midst of COVID-19 and online baptism classes, we just had baptism of 13 people, all of them youth! 



SNAPCHAT MESSAGE, LOL!

And lastly, a snapshot of a message I received from one of ex-students from Rescue on a group chat with them, a Happy Father’s Day! LOL!


 
Thank you all as you continue to dance with me here. I am praying for a reprieve away from the city from this intense heat and sound of construction as places are being opening up. However COVID precautions are still in place! I pray for your safety as well! 


Love, His Warrior and Disciple, 

Submitting to be His Dance partner here in Cambodia, 

Your sister, Vidya 

Saturday 5 June 2021

#242 - First Vax, Bible Translations and Role Adjustment at NLF

Vol.# 242

It is 5:30 in the morning and I am hearing chants and thinking, Hmmm, we are not allowed to go to the pagoda/woat/ Buddhist place of worship, so it could not be coming from the temple located about 5 minutes from where I live. (Usually on loud speakers you can hear when a special event is going on). Then I realize the sounds are closer, and as I peek over my rooftop balcony, I realize the chanting is coming from the courtyard at my own place! 

As I looked and saw a white tent being put up, I realized that someone had died and then I saw the pic of the grandmother being put up on display. She passed away early in the morning and because it is during this COVID-19 time, everything is being done quite subdued and simply. A white cloth is wrapped around the light post just outside the yard to signify a death, and then the local commune chiefs and a couple of policemen came in to sign papers and to verify that the death was not associated with COVID-19. Then the monks came in, and the landlord and his son and son-in-law went to have their heads shaved as part of the ritual of mourning the dead here. I waited until the next day to go and pay my respects to say I will miss seeing the grandmother early in the morning sitting outside just enjoying the sun and watering her plants. The family from the province/ countryside drove in and food was being prepared for those who came in. There were about 20 people sitting in chairs arranged in social distancing pattern to observe the proceedings. As I spoke to the landlady, I told her I would be praying for the whole family from my rooftop. I gave some money as part of the ‘respect’ to honor the grandmother and then I left. 


GRANDMOTHER'S FUNERAL

As I listened later to the chants and then the silence that followed, I thought (from my viewpoint) that death here on earth is a home going to Jesus. I picture the dancing and singing (not muted) as a celebration occurring not only in the heavenlies, but also for me here on earth. As sad as it is lose a loved one, not to see them or speak to them, what a comfort, no, more than a comfort, it is a fact that in Christ I will be seeing those loved ones again in heaven. Eternity with my Jesus. As I spoke to my landlady later, there was no peace for her, except that she hoped she had taken good care of her mother while here on earth. I stood and listened and looked at her face. She was scared that I as a foreigner would want to move since there was a death here. I just called her up to pay my rent early as part of the reassurance that I am still here and in Jesus’ Name I will be praying for her family.


THANK YOU to all who have continued to pray for Sister Boramey. She is about 70 percent well on her way to complete recovery. Her husband Lokru Virak sends her gratitude to all have been praying for her.


I was blessed to join a ZOOM seminar on the origins of Bible translation into Khmer language. The process of having to know Sanskrit, Hebrew, Greek, and English, just to name a few of the languages which the translators had to have a deep knowledge of, as well as the grammatical knowledge of passive and active tenses... to present tense in order to capture the meanings, plus the knowledge that the Holy Spirit was guiding those who undertook this challenge and still are doing these translations was mind boggling to me!  Some Khmer friends were asking, ‘Vidya, why did you join?’ It was all in Khmer and the level of vocabulary and content were quite beyond my own knowledge of Khmer. My response was, “It was exciting to see the process and to hear what the main translators/interpreters had to say on what they had to learn and how they had prepared to do this task so that any Khmer, not withstanding the level of education had access to read and hear Jesus the Christ in their first language!” 

EXAMPLE OF BIBLE TRANSLATION PROGRESS


You all know how passionate I am about reading the Word, how precious my coffee time is with Jesus, as His Holy Spirit talks and I hear His voice through His Word. I am blessed to open up my IPad and I have so many translations of His Word! On my IPad I now have 6 Bible translations in Khmer language! Some are in both the Old and New Testament while others are still trying to finish the whole Bible in that particular translation! Of course I took screen shots of the slides shown so that I can go back and study them, since, yes, much of what they were saying went way over my head and the seminar was for 3 hours, but in reality it went on for 4 hours! 

6 BIBLE KHMER TRANSLATIONS

I am on the Info desk welcome team and since there is no on-site service, we as a team have been meeting on Sundays at 10-11 on Google Meet and studying the Book of Ephesians. We get to read it together and talk about what we hear God saying to each of us. If it weren’t for COVID-19 we would not be having such in-depth meetings and praying for each other, so I am thankful to the leaders of this group who initiated this. What is church if not for the building and maintaining of relationships? Again I am the ONLY foreigner in this group so I am very grateful to be invited to participate! 


In my reading over the past 2 weeks, ‘leader burnout’ seems to be the recurring theme and as I prayed over a meeting I was going to have with the leader of NLF here, I knew I was going to be sharing about this. Wouldn’t you know it, during the lunch hour prior to that, I was listening to a Global Leadership Network seminar given by Carey Nieuwhof (a Canadian pastor), and the second seminar was on leader burnout and the different signs! It was a good meeting. The staff here are in different stages of burnout, and what they need is not only a fresh outpouring of His Presence, but also the visible presence of the main leaders to spend quality time with the staff! I had sensed the word ‘exhaustion’ when I had stepped into the office for the first time last week, and this week even though half of the staff would come in on site on certain days, we would all meet online for meetings. I had the privilege of being there when we shared communion together on site and online with others. I know many, if not all of you, have not been able to have communion together, and that is why I am so grateful to go in and participate on behalf of all of you who cannot do this.

WORSHIP PREP

FIRST WORSHIP TIME TOGETHER

I HAVE received my first vaccine. I had written to ask Dr. Gamble his advice on taking Sinovac which is the only one available right now here in the city, and am grateful for Dr. Gamble (and Linda) taking the time to discuss my case with other doctors and getting back to me quickly, advising me to take the available vaccine. I was concerned because I wanted to get an internationally recognized vaccine! This advice coincided with Bro. Krong and his wife Liep who were burdened that I had not been vaccinated. Within 2 days, Bro. Krong’s cousin, who is an intern, called to get my passport information and I was called into a school that has been converted into a vaccination centre to get the vaccine! The appointment was for one o’clock; I got there by 12:40, being escorted by Bro. Krong and Sister Liep. With the sun beating down upon us as the line grew to wait for the vaccine, the gate suddenly opened and I was invited in with Sister Liep to go in early to get my vaccine! It was all done within 15 minutes while others still had to go in and sit and wait in the hot sun! I found favor and I am so grateful for all of your prayers. 2 days after receiving Sinovac vaccine, it was approved by W.H.O.! My second vaccine will be on June 13th. I am praying for the same quick favor. The young doctor was quite professional and I am remembering to pray for him, Dr. Vannith!

FIRST SINOVAC VACCINE

Praise God: I was looking for fresh fruit and found watermelon, but could not find pawpaw/papaya! So I went home. I got a call 5 minutes after reaching home from my usual tuk tuk driver, and he says, “you come down I have papaya for you, my treat!“ SO very grateful! I had just bought coconut water for him and his wife so he had kept his eye open for papaya for me!

 
Praise God: I have more reliable fibre optic internet service! After being promised I would get delivery in 2 days, I was still waiting 4 days later. So I called the service provider leader and asked where he lived so that I could go and stay there, with his house becoming my hotel since he had Wi-Fi and I did not. There was a pause and I think he got the message that was reinforced by my asking for a DEFINITE time for the installation, since then I would be calling him every 15 minutes or so to make sure no one got lost or got in an accident on the way to my house! I was reading the story of the persistent widow from Luke 18:1-8 and was inspired! I was told they would come the next day but, lo and behold, I got a call that day and they came and within half hour (a miracle indeed here time wise!). It was installed, the two guys got their cold Coca Cola, and I prayed over them as they were leaving. One of the young guys got to practise his English and we were all happy! My expat friends told me they were going to call me next time they need to get something done!

WI-FI CABLE ON STREET

WI-FI INSTALLED

As I met with Lokru (Pastor) Samdy on my role with NLF as things have changed at the Skills Training Centre which we had to close due to COVID-19, he felt strongly that prayer mentoring as well as hospitality/welcome ministries were where there was a need (one of my prayer partners in Canada had said the word ‘welcome’ was propping up when she prayed for me before going into the meeting). One day later I got a call asking if I was busy, and could I meet for time to reconnect and prayer! It was a young Khmer leader of one of the ministries God had put upon my heart. So yesterday, just meeting with her was a confirmation. The second was when another younger Khmer worker saw me and came up to say hi with tears in her eyes. I think we as leaders or influencers forget the importance of ‘presence’. It was one thing to be present at the staff meetings on ZOOM or any other meetings (even if the topic was way over my head because of lack of Khmer language knowledge), and another not to be on site when it is now allowed. I was told many times, “Bong srey Vidya’, so good to see you on ZOOM, you are still connecting with us, thank you and now thank you for getting the vaccine so that you can come into the office!” I will be meeting with that second sister next week Wednesday.

 
I met with and prayed with the Worship leaders. I am officially part of the prayer group for this young ministry as it moves forward to reach Cambodia during pandemic time online! 


I have often mentioned Oun Muylen. She has resigned from Prison Fellowship Cambodia and so I am walking along with her as she prays and asks God for her next step. It is my privilege to be here to listen and pray with her at this time.


Thank you for reading through this LONG update. 

I will end with this story. I was heading back home from participating in the taped worship service session and as I was looking for a tuk tuk to take me home, one guy comes along and I give my address and ask him, so what is the price? Usually a negotiation is done but the negotiation did not go the way he thought it would! The young driver said,”muhmerne”, which is $2.50 for a 3-kilometre journey. Usually, if the APP is used, it is $1.70 to maximum $2.00. So he is probably thinking, okay I will get way more. I just looked at him, and remembered that it was only in the last 2 weeks this same area was under lockdown and he had no work. So I told him $3.00! He looked at me and then looked away quickly with a shocked look on his face and repeated, $3.00? He was probably thinking, this foreigner, poor ting, does not know that is more than muhmerne! He quickly said yes, sprayed the seating area, made sure he had on his mask properly, and that I had on my mask, and off we went home, the fastest time possible! When we got home, I counted the money that was in riels back to him in Khmer to let him know he was receiving more than he had asked for! He quickly took the money (and sprayed it) and said a heartfelt thank you and quickly left before I changed my mind! I started to laugh! The drivers all know that I work at the church at the mall, so prayerfully this would be a seed into conversation about why I am here and into Jesus’ heart!

 
Thank you all again for your sacrificial giving of your finances and time. Please continue to send your requests and stories as we dance and do life together with Jesus as our dance Leader and Partner! 


Love, His Warrior and Disciple, 

Submitting to be His Dance partner here in Cambodia, 

Your sister, Vidya